welcome, Logan!

Just a quick little update:

Our son is here! His name is Logan, and his birth story is in the video below. :)

Thanks so much for the support and well-wishes! We are all doing great and adjusting to our new normal.

CK

so many visitors!

We got so spoiled this past month with friends and family visiting Melbourne!

My mom was here at the end of 2018, making her annual/biannual trip to visit us (well, mostly Arden!).

She was a great help with Arden, taking care of her both day and night - which was a great blessing especially during my third trimester of pregnancy. We don't usually get such hands-on assistance with Arden on a weekly basis, so we always appreciate the help (and opportunities for date nights!).

teatime with Ahma!

In late December/early January, my maternal cousin Justin was in town with his wife Han and their two kids, visiting Han's extended family who live near Melbourne. I hadn't seen Justin since a family reunion in 2007, so it was great to see him again.

2007! we were in Hawaii, in case you couldn't tell...

2018! I am less tan and very pregnant now.

We got to visit with them several times: meeting up at a mall near our apartment, a trip to the Melbourne Zoo and a barbecue at their AirBnB, and finally a barbecue picnic at the edge of the beautiful Yarra River.

Justin and Han have two kids - a girl and a little boy - so we asked them plenty of questions about their experience with two children, and what the transition from one to two was like for them. Arden especially adored their daughter Olive, wanting to hold her hand most of the time and always asking about the next time we'd see her.

Olive and Arden. Olive Garden, haha

And earlier this month we hosted our friends Matt and Kathryn, whom I've known since college, and their adorable 1-year old daughter Arlynn. And yes, it was often a challenge to keep our kids' names straight.

Royal Botanic Gardens

checking out the Sandridge Bridge and its records of Australian immigration

American football fans.

Arden was... mostly gentle with baby Arlynn. However, every time Arlynn started crying, Arden joined in unison and it took a while to calm her down again. The visit was a good test-run for what an experience with another baby will be like in a few weeks/months... (hint: we've definitely got our work cut out for us!)

"hugs"

The Riemersmas were up for anything and everything, so we took them to almost all the local sightseeing spots, and we had amazing weather to walk around in (on average, we walked from 6-8 miles every day!). We took them to the Shrine of Remembrance, Royal Botanic Gardens, various malls and centres in the city, the Queen Victoria Markets, the Melbourne Museum, and around our lovely Docklands neighbourhood. We also had some amazing meals in newly-discovered restaurants (even with my strange Gestational Diabetes diet, I've finally figured out what I can and can't eat out).

 

Market Lane coffee!

Arden adored Auntie Kathryn.

I found myself feeling pretty sad at the end of our string of visitors, as I usually am. As much as we love living abroad and there is no shortage of wonderful people in Melbourne, there's something truly valuable about friendships and relationships with history. Also, these visits were the last major events in my calendar before our son's due date, and it's a bit surreal knowing that our next adventure will most likely be his birth day..!

We love Melbourne, and we especially love showing it off to friends and family when they're able to visit. And yes, we are always open to hosting (or at least, playing tour guide to) more friends and family who end up on this side of the world! I mean, we hosted friends when Arden was only 2 weeks old (and had a wonderful time despite diaper blowouts, breastfeeding challenges and very little sleep!), so... if you want to come see us, we'd love to hang out.

Thanks for visiting, family and friends! Hopefully it's not too long before we see you all again.

CK

goodbye 2018, hello 2019!

Happy New Year!

2018 was another whirlwind year of travel, adventures, and another journey towards expanding our family.

Early this year, we got our Australian Permanent Residency after what seemed like a never-ending process of paperwork, logistics and setbacks.

We made our yearly trip to the US a little earlier this year, mostly so we could attend Ben's sister's spring wedding. We had an amazing time celebrating in Washington, and then Arden and I made a trip to the midwest to visit our family in Michigan.

Other travels this year included a visit to Singapore to meet up with my mom and see a fun new city, and most recently a trip to Tasmania where we had an amazing time visiting beautiful places and seeing lots of Australian wildlife up close.

We're also expecting our second child this year, which we are very excited about. I've been doing pregnancy updates through a vlog series, which you can check out below. Some new updates:

-We're having a boy!
-This pregnancy I have been diagnosed with gestational diabetes, which has been a big lifestyle change for me - but over the past month I've grown very accustomed to checking my blood sugar and injecting myself with insulin, which aren't pleasant things to do, but I'm fairly used to it now.


2018 was a challenging, adventurous and wonderful year for us, and we're looking forward to seeing what 2019 has in store for our little family.

Hope you had/are having a wonderful holiday season!

-Ben, Candice and Arden

Tasmania.

During our time in Australia, we’ve made the most of my extra vacation time and planned trips to most of the big cities and popular destinations throughout the country. One of the places that has always been near the top of the list but kept getting pushed aside (mainly due to it being so close to Melbourne, and a place we could go anytime) was Tasmania. This year we finally decided to make a trip to Tassie for a little babymoon and to spend a bit of time in the mountains, something I’ve been craving ever since we moved away from Washington.

hanging out at a rest stop en route to Cradle Mountain

For the first part of our trip we stayed in a nice cabin at the Cradle Mountain Lodge, which is just outside Cradle Mountain-Lake St Clair National Park. When we arrived to check in at the lodge we were greeted by a friendly wombat roaming around, and on our walk from the cabin to the lodge for dinner we saw lots of Pademelons (little wallabies) and Currawongs (a Tasmanian bird similar to a crow but with bright yellow eyes and white tail feathers). It was really nice to see so many Currawongs and brought back fond memories as we used to be visited by a Currawong that would land on our apartment balcony and keep Candice company while she was pregnant with Arden. During our time at Cradle Mountain we were so spoiled by wildlife that after seeing a few animals, Arden kept saying “see another one”, like this was just an ordinary everyday experience.

wombat-spotting!

pademelon-sighting

I should mention that Cradle Mountain is known for its extremely unpredictable weather, so it was a gamble going in mid-spring when the weather could often be really rainy or even snowing. Fortunately, we had one absolutely perfect sunny day, and we spent the day walking around Dove Lake, located at the foot of Cradle Mountain. The walk is pretty mild and only has one decent uphill stretch, but when you’re carrying a 3-year old most of the time (or are over halfway pregnant all of the time!) it gets pretty exhausting. We were so thankful to get a really nice day and to be able to enjoy all the great views of Cradle Mountain (which if you haven’t guessed already, looks like a cradle).

Cradle Mountain

The next day we went on a few short walks near the lodge and were able to see two really nice waterfalls (Pencil Pine Falls and Knyvet Falls). The walk through the forest to get to the falls was really lush, with moss hanging from the trees, and reminded me a bit of the Hoh Rainforest in Washington.

Pencil Pine falls

After our walks it was meant to get pretty rainy, so we decided to go see the Tasmanian Devils at a sanctuary located nearby (Devils at Cradle). This was probably the highlight of the trip for Arden as she loved the Devils and now has a plush Devil and a Devil t-shirt. The Devils were really cute, except for the terrifying barking sound they make.

Arden cuddling her beloved Tasmanian Devil plushie on the flight home

After a short few days at Cradle Mountain, we drove back down to Hobart for the rest of our stay (leaving just before they got a bunch of snow again). We spent the first evening wandering around the waterfront before spending the next day at Salamanca Market and Royal Tasmanian Botanical Gardens. The market was fun, but it was hard to enjoy as it was super windy and raining off and on. The botanic gardens were really nice and one of the better gardens we’ve visited in Australia. It was a bit of a walk from the city, but well worth the visit.

the journey back to Hobart was very risky

Salamanca Markets

Botanic Garden

Our last full day in Hobart we took the ferry to the Museum of Old and New Art (MONA). The ferry is pretty awesome as it’s a big catamaran with sheep that you can sit on (which Arden loved). It also gave us some great views of the city from the water. The museum itself was really cool. To steal the thought from my friends, when you start the tour it really does feel like you’re entering a bond villain’s lair. I won’t say any more than that as I don’t want to spoil it for those who haven’t been yet.

The exhibits themselves were varied and largely fascinating. I’m not sure if this happens every day, or if this was a special experience (as we were there for the opening of a few new exhibits), but there was live music for some of the exhibits and it really enhanced the experience. In one instance it was a bit much for me after a little while, but it sure added to the ambiance and feel of the area. Some of the highlights from MONA included these exhibits focused around colour, one of which was a long hallway with intense colour that would periodically change from blue to red (and possibly other colours too). There was also this fun exhibit where you could sit and climb on the art. It was like a kids play area but looked like it was made out of old space suits and had lots of colourful glass tubes on the ceiling.

the view from MONA

live music in front of an exhibit

We had a great little trip to Tassie and hope we get the chance to visit again. There are so many other great national parks I’d still love to visit, but it might be a while until we’re up for another road trip now that we’ll be a family of four. Maybe in a couple years...

 -BK