Friday, February 27, 2015

chinese new year 2015.

It was Chinese New Year last weekend, which is always a fun celebration in Melbourne. This year, our neighbourhood hosted some amazing festivities during the day, which was super convenient for us. There were delicious Asian food trucks, a stage for various musical performances, a few traditional lion dances, and of course - the return of the huge light-up dragon.
CNY in the Docklands
yummy tofu banh mi
We also celebrated the holiday by keeping some of our personal Lunar New Year traditions, based on traditional Chinese customs:

  • Cleaning the house before the new year: typically done to "sweep away evil spirits" and such, I like doing it because it's actually a super useful post-winter-holiday tradition (aka: last chance to get rid of the Christmas tree!).
  • Remembering our "ancestors:" we're not into ancestor-worship, but it's a nice opportunity for us to share stories of loved ones who have passed away. I think this will be a great way to preserve memories for our future children, of the family and friends they won't get to meet in person, but are still very important to us.
  • Wearing red, the celebratory colour of the Chinese: also a way to "scare away evil spirits and bad fortune," because why not? This is especially useful during years when CNY lines up near Valentine's Day.
Happy Year of the Sheep/Goat/Ram, and we wish you all a year of prosperity and joy! 恭禧發財

CK

Tuesday, February 10, 2015

one down, three to go.

studying at the Docklands library
My first semester of grad school has been over for a little while (and I passed all my classes - what a relief!), but I thought it would be fun to share some of my general back-to-school experiences, as both an international student, and someone who's been out of the academic world for a while.

Semester Structure

I was a mid-year entry student, so I started in Semester Two, which is from late July to early November-ish. We have class for three months, with a one-week break in the middle - pretty short, which I don't mind at all! But per usual, I've grown accustomed to my environment, and by the beginning of month #2 I was already experiencing end-of-semester-itis.

I'm still not used to thinking of March-June as "Autumn semester" and July-November as "Winter/Spring semester." During one of my first classes, the professor asked each student to introduce themselves and tell everyone about something fun they did over the winter break. I was the first to go, so I naturally started blabbering all about what I had been doing since winter. American winter, that is - November, December... It totally went over my head that the professor was simply asking us about our "winter break," aka the single month of June. I was mortified.
there may not be a Starbucks on campus, but there's a bubble tea place! 

Academics (and Grading)

During international student orientation, the instructor briefly touched on the topic of grading. "Grades are a lot different here - it's best to discard any expectations you have from previous grading scales, and just ask an Australian classmate if your grade is good. Most of you will be aiming for an H2A, which is about 75-79%... Students from the US will be disappointed, students from the UK will be ecstatic."

Here's the Melbourne University grading scale:

H1 = 80%-100%
H2A = 75%-79%
H2B = 70%-74%
H3 = 65%-69%

Of course, grades mean different things to different people (one's B+ is like another person's D- etc. etc.) But generally speaking, in the US, grades in the 70's are not really considered great. Especially if you're Asian, in which case you may have just disgraced generations of ancestors. But here in Australia, 70's are actually pretty good. "I've never been this excited about an 80% on a paper!" I exclaimed to my family over video chat one day, as they tried their best to hide their horror.

I worked hard, but kept personal expectations low, especially since I'd been out of academics for a while. My grades weren't terrible, and for my first semester average I managed to hover around a low H1. Yay!
crunch time.

Going Back to School as an "Older" Student

I graduated from college in 2007. That's over seven years ago, and while it seems like just yesterday, it really isn't. Going back to school as an "older" student was challenging, and there were many skills I had to learn, as well as re-learn.

I had a chronic headache for the first week or so, just trying to wrap my mind around big words and readjusting to concise academic-speak. Also, I had forgotten how hard writing is. I had to use a different type of writing style for each of my four classes - complex academic writing (citations, yay!), opinionated editorial, dry investigative reporting, and conversational blogging (really not familiar with that one at all. haha). And even though I've grown accustomed to the Australian way of spelling (colour, manoeuvre etc.), there were some phrases and unique spelling that I had to consult my iPhone Dictionary about, especially while editing other classmates' papers.

For the entire first month of the semester, Ben was still working on the road, so I was very much alone. And then when he finally came home, I stressed out about having a husband around - I didn't have a husband during my undergrad years, so would I be more or less distracted having one around? But to be honest, school is so much nicer without having to worry about dating, or even looking nice for class. After the first week I realised that it was perfectly fine to sit in large lecture halls without wearing anything girly, or looking remotely awake. School is wonderful like this.

And finally, I know I sound like an old fogey here, but: I really miss the days when getting a paper back was a simple thing (i.e. you get your physical paper handed back to you, physically), not a chain of e-mails between tech support and various instructors about why I can't see my comments or grades in the supposed Learning Management System. Almost everything at school is done digitally now, from accessing the readings online, to handing in final papers. There are obviously many pros and cons to technological change in any area of life. But, as always, I find myself getting very accustomed to the benefits, and wanting to rip my hair out over the pitfalls.

how I construct philosophical essays, no joke.

The Social Network

Of course, one of the best things about university life is the chance to meet people from all different walks of life. Grad school is especially diverse, because unlike an undergrad program, more students have come from different life situations (backpacking across Europe, taking multiple "gap years" after college, pursuing a drastic change of career, etc.) and there's more age variety. I'm definitely not one of the younger students in my classes (and I actually may have had at least one younger instructor, ahhhh), but I'm not the oldest, either. I've met plenty of fellow classmates my age, give or take a year, and I've had no problem connecting with my classmates who are up to a decade younger or older. It's amazing how often age really doesn't matter, once you hit your mid-twenties. Especially if you look and act like an awkward teenager, like yours truly...

Anyway, when I started school last year, it had been months since I'd interacted with people in-person, so it was nice to finally be able to practice my "social skills" again. It was great to finally meet some local Australians, and have real conversations with them. It was also fun to share my experiences as an American traveling throughout their homeland. Some of my classmates hadn't even heard of many of the towns that Ben and I got to explore last year. And sometimes they had heard of these places, although not positively. Me: "We spent a few weeks in Shepparton, it was super fun!" Classmate: "Shepparton? That place is terrible!" <-- I imagine it would be like an Australian visiting Indiana and spending a three-week adventure in a charming, quaint town called, say, "Gary." (No offence if you're from Gary, IN.)

An American in Melbourne

I love how being an American makes me "unique" around here. All semester long I took every opportunity I could to make terrible, self-deprecating American-jokes. And whenever I'd do something completely awkward like trip over my words (or feet) or bungle a well-known expression, I'd just chalk it up to my American roots, as if no one was at all familiar with the United States. Losing my balance and falling over in my chair? Totally an American tradition. Dropping my water bottle and accidentally dumping water into my lap? Just another cultural quirk from the US of A!

I tried to play it cool as much as I could with Australian words and phrases (out with "whatup, guys?" and in with "g'day mates!"), but every now and then I'd learn (the hard way) about certain unexpected Americanisms. For example, there's a non-teaching week during the month of September. I asked some classmates if it was "like, Spring Break?" and everyone began laughing and shouting things like "SPRAAAANG BREEEAK!! WOOOO!! Let's all go to Cancun, duuuudes!"

Apparently the notion of "Spring Break" is a VERY American thing. And a terrible stereotypical one, at that.

Also, studying journalism as an American in Australia has had some strange challenges. For example, when discussing politics (which I am terrible at, by the way, but unfortunately it's a staple of journalism), I was dismayed to find out that in Australia, the "Labour Party" is liberal, while the "Liberal Party" is conservative. So whenever someone is identified as a liberal, I have to figure out if they're liberal, or Liberal. Or maybe a liberal Liberal? Good grief.

And speaking of America... it's been fascinating to see just how much of an impact American culture has on Australians, especially through the media. Most movies, popular songs and television shows come from the States. In fact, a friend of ours told us that to him, our American accents sound out of place in person - but that when he watches American movies/TV he's so accustomed to hearing American accents on screen, that it doesn't sound American to him - it just sounds normal.

One classmate of mine admitted that he had memorised all the American States and their Capitals for fun, when he was in grade school. Another classmate happily talked my ear off about the NFL, which he preferred over Australian Footy. And quite a few of my classmates aspire to one day move overseas for a bit. "I'd love to get an apartment in New York for a few years... I mean, to live anywhere in the States, that's the dream, you know?" Which is funny and kind of ironic, because many of our friends and family feel the same way - about Australia.

What's the thing they always say about the grass?

It's always greener on the other side. (Of the world.)

CK

Friday, February 6, 2015

sportsing summer in melbourne.

Although the weather may suggest otherwise, summer is in full swing in Melbourne, and that means plenty of opportunities to watch some of the world's best athletes 'sportsing' their hardest.  Of course there is the Australian Open, but this year is extra special as the AFC Asian Cup is being played in Australia.  The Asian Cup is a football (soccer to us Americans) tournament similar to the UEFA European Championship or World Cup in that it is played every 4 years and features the national team of each country.  As the name suggests, it features all the qualifying teams in the Asian conference.  This includes Australia (who joined the conference in 2007), as well as Japan, China, South Korea and also other countries like UAE, Pakistan and Jordan.  This is the first time Australia has hosted the Cup as the host nation changes every 4 years, and was the perfect opportunity for us to experience some world class football. 
cheering on some Asians at AAMI Park
Luckily for us, Melbourne was one of the host cities for a few first round matches of the Asian Cup, so Candice and I got tickets along with one of my friends to attend the group stage match between Japan and Jordan.  The stadium was filled to near capacity with over 20,000 people, 95% of whom seemed to be rooting for Japan, one of the favourites to win the Cup.  Japan were true to form and won 2-0, as Jordan struggled to keep the ball out of their half of the field for pretty much the entire match.  The crowd was energetic and engaged, especially the singing section near where we were sitting (though in my opinion it didn't come close to the energy of a Seattle Sounders crowd), which made for a great atmosphere.  
watching Japan win
It would have been fun to see the Australia team play live, but those matches were more expensive and sold out quickly, so by the time I was aware that the Asian Cup was happening it was already too late to get tickets.  The massive support from the Australian faithful and the goal-scoring prowess of Tim Cahill helped Australia secure a spot in the finals where they played South Korea.  Australia won in thrilling fashion 2-1 on a goal in extra time after South Korea had tied the game in the 91st minute.  It was a great win for Australia, and their first win as a nation in a major football tournament!

Being the former Coupeville High School 2nd singles tennis player that I am, I tend to geek out when the Australian Open is on.  Even when I played tennis, I never really spent much time watching it on TV, but having the opportunity to attend and see the world's best players live is something truly special.  When looking up tickets for the Open, I discovered that during the four days of qualifying before the tournament, you can go watch the matches for free.  So Candice and I headed to Melbourne Park on the last Saturday of qualifying and were rewarded with some great tennis under beautiful sunny skies.  We were able to sit two rows back from the outdoor courts as we watched players ranked in the hundreds playing just for the chance to be in the Open, where their victory would mean facing off against the highest ranked players in what would inevitably be a short lived tournament experience.  We had a great time and it was a great teaser to what would become another epic Australian Open.
day four of qualifying for the Australian Open

After the first week of play, we decided to get an evening ground pass to the first Saturday session, where we had the chance to watch the world's 5th ranked mens player, Kei Nishikori, who we also watched live during the 2014 Open.  It was actually a very deja-vu experience, as we saw Nishikori play an American again, and we saw him win with relative ease, again.  Steve Johnson (ranked 38th), the American he played this year, put up a good fight in the first set and managed to win the tiebreaker, but apparently that took all of his ability to achieve as Nishikori won the next 3 sets easily to secure the match.  As with the Japan vs Jordan football match, the crowd was dominated by Japanese supporters cheering on Nishikori, though there were a few American supporters who would yell out encouragement ("come on Steve" and "let's go Stevie") when they got the chance.
watching the tennis pt. 2
Nishikori vs. Johnson
Australia had a lot of representation in the men's tournament this year (10 players in total), but as the tournament went on all of them were defeated until only one remained, 19 year old Nick Kyrgios.  As with most of the nation, we became swept up in the excitement as Kyrgios made it into the quarterfinals by beating Andres Seppi in an epic 5-set match, before losing in straight sets to Andy Murray.  Kyrgios is a bit hot-headed and a polarizing player, though quite entertaining, and he fed off the energy and support of the crowd throughout his matches in the tournament.  It was exciting to witness a young talent make a real splash in the tournament, especially as he had the support of the host nation (and TV announcers) behind him.  

Murray would go on to the finals to play Djokovic, where they had met 2 times previously in the Australian Open finals.  The first two sets were some of the finest tennis I've ever seen, as neither player could gain the upper hand.  The third set was the change though as Djokovic got a late break to win 6-3 and then swept Murray 6-0 in the 4th to win a record 5th Australian Open championship.
Despite these great sporting events, what had me most excited this summer was Super Bowl XLIX.  The Seahawks were in it for the 2nd year in a row, and this time I actually had the day off work to watch!  Apparently our move to Melbourne has been just what the team needed, as they've made it to back to back Super Bowls since we left Seattle.  Heading into the matchup with the Patriots I was as nervous as always, but so excited to see my favourite team playing the sport that I love above all else.  Candice baked a cake and decorated it with the logo and the slogan of Seattle, "Go Hawks", and we even had our friend James and his wife Marcela over to enjoy the game and celebrate with us.  Everything was going perfectly for us to celebrate back to back championships, but it wasn't meant to be.
a Monday morning Super Bowl party!
Candice and her little cake.

By now the entire world knows what happened, and like all of Seattle I was devastated and went through all the stages of grief in coming to grips with the heartbreaking loss.  It was an especially difficult loss because the past few years following the Seahawks has given me the greatest sense of community with a sports team I have ever experienced.  It began before we moved from Seattle as I started listening to sports radio more frequently, and continued to listen to the same podcasts 5 days a week either as I drove to remote parts of Victoria or rode the tram on my morning commute.  It allowed me to continue hearing the great play by play of Steve Raible and Warren Moon, and continue to get all the news and speculation on all things Seahawks, even from the other side of the world.

Then there are the personalities of this team, the coaches and players and their dedication and respect for the 12s (the Seahawks fans).  From a defense that is one of the best the league has ever seen, a running back who runs like every play might be his last and who refuses to let up no matter how hard he gets hit, a quarterback who visualizes victory in every matchup and continues to achieve beyond even our wildest expectations, and a coach whose positivity and leadership has inspired our players to play for one another and allowed them to perform at such a high level because he uses the unique talents of each person in situations that will allow them the best opportunity to succeed.  

But for me, this feeling of community is really about the friends and family back home in Seattle that I miss every day.  Sharing the common love and excitement for this team make Seattle and the great Pacific Northwest seem not so far away.  And that is why I will continue to follow this team with the same dedication, no matter the outcome.  Go Hawks!
BK